DEAR dahlstyle:
I am a 42 year old woman who has never had a clue about fashion or style. Is there something wrong with me? Did I miss a day in first grade that would teach me all I need to know?

Sincerely,
Cluelessly Fashioned

Dear Cluelessly Fashioned:
Having a personal style isn't something that we're really taught. It's something that comes to us more instinctually. I like to use my lack of knowledge in computers as an example. Some people have the instinct to learn computer programs quickly. I do not have that ability, but I will hire the necessary technician to help me in this case. I understand that knowing what to buy and wear can be frustrating for some, so I am here for you if you need any "style" help.

Fashionably,
dahlstyle

DEAR dahlstyle:
I have a chest size of 38DD and I have the WORST time finding anything that fits me in the chest. Do you have any suggestions?

Sincerely,
Bust'n' Out

Dear Bust'n' Out:
I have a number of clients that experience the same frustration and I understand how difficult it is to find the right clothes that fit. First, try to find tops that have a little stretch in them. Make sure the buttons aren't pulling where they meet but the stretch will give you some room to breathe and move. Secondly, you can find jackets and tops that will fit you in your shoulders as well as your chest but it will be a matter of "trial and success". Once you've found tops that work, buy them in every complimentary color for you. As for jackets, make sure they are a three button jacket to "lock and load" your chest. Avoid ribbed knits and bulky sweaters. Stick to items that will skim your body type without pulling along the chest. You can also find custom made tops on the internet that are custom made to your specifications. They are expensive but the perfect fit is definitely worth the money!

Fashionably,
dahlstyle